Romantic Gifts for Her There are many different kinds of gifts that you can get for your special lady, from the obvious to the more sincere.  Here are a few ideas to get you started on your hunt for romantic gifts for her. Romantic Meaningful Gifts: Roses, Dinners, Jewelry There are many ideas that will be meaningful for her; you just have to look a bit harder to find them.  Roses are an obvious choice that most people see as the perfect gift.  These are great gifts but if you want to do something more meaningful then think about what you can do with those roses.  You can take the petals off of them and have a perfect bed filled with rose petals or pave the way to a perfect bath with those roses.  It’s really something you can be creative with. Another great way to tell her she means everything to you is to take her to a great place for a candlelight dinner.  You know, those places that are to expensive for a normal dinner.  This helps her to feel like you love her and lets her know that you want to be with her and are willing to dress up nice and show that to her.  Jewelry is one of the great romantic gift ideas for her.  Many people will go this route because they know that if it sparkles then it’s a great idea for her.  Also it shows that you are committed to her and that you see her as a beautiful person that should have a beautiful piece of jewelry.   You can also have these jewelry pieces personalized for her with a special message or her name. You can purchase great looking jewelry and personalized items at your local jewelry store.  Gifts For After Dinner: Lingerie, Romance Novels There are many gifts that will help to keep both of you warm on cold nights or get the romance going for you and her.  One of these is an obvious pick.  Lingerie has been around for many years and is great for helping to set the mood.  These can come in many shapes and sizes.  You should be very comfortable in your relationship and make sure that you know she would be ok with getting that as a gift.  Some women like to pick their own lingerie.  Consider a gift card to a lingerie store such as Fredrick’s of Hollywood (http://www.fredericks.com) or Victoria’s Secret (www.victoriasecret.com).  That way you can pick it out together. When you think of books you don’t think that it could be in with the romantic gifts for her but you are not seeing it as it could be.  There are many books that can spark the romance on any cold night.  There is even a company that will help you create your own romance novel starring you and your lover.  What better way to start a little romance.  Check out their site for more information. (http://www.yournovel.com) Some other ideas for romantic gifts for her that are a little on the naughty side are body chocolates and oils for after the romantic candlelight dinner that you planned weeks ahead.  You should always plan the mood with your after dinner gifts.  The lights should be low and there should be a romantic feeling in the air.  This can help to enhance your romantic gifts and help to make the night great for everyone. What Not To Get Her: Lingerie, Other Gifts While there are a lot of gifts that you can get for her, there are a few that you should stay away from.  These may include gifts that are a little to personal or just plain cheesy.  Some you should stay away from are the really racy and not tasteful lingerie.  This would include the kinds that are not for your lady size or color wise.  As mentioned above you can get around this by getting her a gift card to go with something else that you have picked for her and both of you go pick out her lingerie.  Then she gets the one that she likes but you still have made a great gift and maybe helped get the night going. Other gifts are edible lingerie pieces.  These are not a good idea for any occasion.  Most women will see this as you saying all you are interested in her for is going to bed.  These gifts send the wrong signal and will definitely ruin your night.  A good alternative to this might be to get body oils and chocolate, as mentioned above, so you can set the mood before you introduce those kinds of gifts for her.  It’s very important to have the mood for the night just right so that she feels loved and valued.  You always want her to know that she is the most important person in your life.